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Whether she told him about the videos or not, he shouldn't have called her a coward.

I really was just angry because I didn't expect him to go there. To say he wouldn't show the videos to their son because he'd see what a coward his mother is was kind of over the line mostly because the last thing she is, is a coward. I just feel like if he feels that way about her then maybe he shouldn't be with her. But I know he doesn't really think that about her. But regardless, i expected him to go a different way with this than he did and the coward comment did not sit well with me. Up until that point I did not take sides, and even after the comment was made I still understood where he was coming from. My biggest issue is, there was no resolve. I know it's great to drag it out for a while, but if we didn't get resolve today we won't get it, as we never have. The next time we see them, they'll probably act like nothing ever happened, as they have in the past, more than once. That's my biggest issue. That and that even though I feel bad for Jeffrey, of course, i can't feel bad for the things he mentioned today because I never see this stuff, I never see the hours he spends worrying about her, or waking up to see if she's still breathing, which is obv the fault of the writers, but I never see it to feel something about it.

He's got to start being a little bit more realistic about the situation, however. I know that her dying is not an option for him, but it could be, and he's going to have to face that someday and I hope they can face that together, when he's ready to deal with it.

But he only saw one video, he doesn't know what's on the rest of them. Her mind is on the baby, hence, the videos. She can be positive and make sure she has something for her son, in case she doesn't make it, at the same time. Sometimes all the positively and fight in the world and you still don't make it, that's a fact of life, she's being realistic, and he needs to start being a little realistic, too.